SHARING IS CARING

Adakah perarakan Maulud Nabi ini dibenarkan dalam Islam? Bagaimanakah pengaplikasian 'perarakan Maulud Nabi' ini dalam masyarakat kita di Malaysia pada hari ini??

Oww..soalan realistik, isu semasa.. cetusan daripada orang yang hebat dan disegani, Ust Mujahid. (semoga dipermudah segala urusan untuk balik berkhidmat di Malaysia beberapa bulan lagi, insya Allah)

Dalam otak saya yang terlalu cetek ilmu ini, saya tidak berani memberikan komen dari sudut agama, dek kerana saya bukan ahlinya. Namun, jika dinilai dari neraca kehidupan, saya mengira bahawa perarakan ini walaupun adat di Malaysia yang tidak didapati di Jordan, memberikan impak yang 'masih positif'.

Sekurang-kurangnya masyarakat di Malaysia masih 'teringat' bahawa cuti awam pada hari itu adalah sempena 'Maulud Nabi'. Dalam setahun, sekurang-kurangnya, ada satu hari yang 'diperuntukkan khas' untuk mengingati dan memperdalami mengenai Rasulullah SAW dan pejuangan baginda. Sekurang-kurangnya, pahala berlipat ganda pada hari ini dek kerana banyak menyebut dan menjawab selawat ke atas baginda. Bukan sekadar birthday insan-insan istimewa saja yang diingati, malah Insan Paling Agung juga tetap bersemi di hati, insya Allah.

Dari segi penghayatan sifat-sifat Nabi dalam kehidupan, bab ini saya tolak ke tepi, dek kerana masyarakat malaysia yang kelihatan 'sakit iman' mereka. Jika dinilai dari sudut negatif, yeah, ia berlaku pembaziran dek kerana persiapan dsb..namun, sekurang-kurangnya, bukan dibazirkan untuk pergi ke taman tema air Sunway Lagoon sempena cuti awam (contoh). Hakikatnya, penghayatan adat itu tidak dapat dijadikan ibadah sekiranya 'objektif utama' sambutan itu tidak dicapai. Sekadar 'penghayatan fizikal' tanpa pembawaan dan penghayatan hati. Matlamat tidak membenarkan cara. Seandainya berlaku percampuran dan situasi yang 'tidak sewajarnya mengikut neraca Al-Quran & As-Sunnah', maka ia perlu dielak.

Mendengar antara butir jawapan daripada Ust Ridhwan, pelajar Master di Universiti Mu'tah: Mari kita singkap sejarah awal perarakan hari Maulud Nabi ini. Asalnya, ia disambut oleh Bani Qudhoh pada kurun ke-4 di mana mereka ini menggelarkan diri mereka sebagai Fatimiyyah (ahli Syiah).

Alhamdulillah, banyak input diperoleh melalui Forum Maulidur Rasul oleh PPMA (Persatuan Pelajar Malaysia Amman), sempena Jaulah AMT MPPM pada hari ini. Tahniah buat moderator, Ust Muhammad. Para panelis: Ust Ridhwan, Ust Syahrul Adnan dan Dr Dzulqarnain.
Perkongsian yang menarik. Semoga amalan ini diterima di sisi-Nya.

Selepas selesai forum ini, diadakan sesi bersama AMT MPPM di mana di sinilah peluang untuk kami kenali, selami dan berdiskusi bersama mahasiswa/i Amman yang kebanyakannya orang-orang hebat bidang agama.. para ibu dan para bapa.

Situasi yang sangat berlainan berbanding program ilmiah di zon saya, Irbid. Level juga jauh berlainan. Mana taknya, sedang rancak berdiskusi ilmiah, terdengar rengekan anak-anak kecil, tiba-tiba terbahak-bahak suara kanak-kanak lain yang rancak bermain sesama mereka di dalam bilik sebelah. Sedang si ibu asyik mencatat points yang dirasakan penting, tiba-tiba datang si anak meminta nasi. Owh, beginilah pengalaman dan suasana menghadiri program 'high status'..huhu. Namun, keadaan ini bukanlah penghalang, malah antara penyeri sesuatu program. Tuntutlah ilmu dari buaian hingga ke liang lahad.

Apapun, alhamdulillah, saya sangat gembira dapat bersua muka dengan kalian. Tahniah buat warga PPMA atas reaksi positif anda sekalian dan bersamalah kita menyebarluaskan budaya ilmiah untuk 'pengantarabangsaan pemikiran' selari dengan Al-Quran dan As-Sunnah. Semoga ukhwah ini berkekalan hingga ke syurga, insya Allah.

"Sesungguhnya Allah dan para malaikat-Nya berselawat ke atas Nabi. Wahai orang-orang yang beriman, berselawatlah kamu ke atas Nabi dan ucapkanlah salam dengan penuh penghormatan kepadanya" (Al-Ahzab:56)

Allahumma solli 3la sayyidina Muhammad wa 3la alihi wasohbihi wasallam. Salam Maulidur Rasul..

Bilakah Nabi dilahirkan? Siapakah insan-insan terawal yang memeluk Islam? Siapakah yang digelar ahlul bayt Nabi? Apakah pekerjaan-pekerjaan Nabi semasa hayatnya? Bilakah wafatnya Rasulullah SAW? Apakah kalimah yang terakhir diucapkan oleh baginda semasa akhir nafasnya? Erm..soalan yang simple bukan?..recall..recall..hehee. (along yakin, Syahmi mesti tahu semua jawapan ini kan, wink wink..)

Persoalannya, sedalam manakah pengetahuan dan ingatan terhadap Rasulullah SAW? Sejauh manakah CINTA kita kepada Rasulullah SAW, Kekasih Allah..?? Apakah bukti keCINTAan tersebut?? Saya juga sering tertanya-tanya kepada diri sendiri..persoalan yang memerlukan pemikiran dan praktikal untuk mendapat jawapan bagi diri sendiri.. "Love? Prove it!"

Kembali terkenang ayat 9:24.. apakah firman Allah pada ayat itu?? Jom selak dan fikir-fikirkan realiti aplikasi dalam kehidupan kita kini dan masa depan..

p/s: persegaran program ini memang best! Mabrook buat para chef ^^

Erm, bersesuaian dengan perlawanan akhir DEBAT PARLIMEN PIALA PRESIDEN PERMAI 2010 (waa..banyak yang berebut 'piala Naqeb' ek..huhu, opss!).

Pertandingan yang bakal menggandingkan 2 pasukan, iaitu dari planet Mars dan Venus. Nantikan, bagaimanakah olahan bahasa mereka, hujah-hujah mereka dan siapakah juaranya!! Tajuk final pada malam ini adalah Rancangan Realiti: Kebajikan Plastik.

Sebelum ini, tajuk-tajuk yang diperdebatkan (termasuk di peringkat saringan) adalah:
1) Pakatan Rakyat tidak lagi Relevan
2) Bajet 2010 Membebankan Rakyat
3) 1 Malaysia Simbol Politik
4) Pembangunan Ekonomi Meruntuhkan Moral Masyarakat
5) Facebook: Lebih Sudu dari Kuah
6) Lelaki Menyusahkan, Perempuan Menyenangkan

Walaupun saya adalah antara hakim yang diminta untuk mengadili, tapi hakikatnya, saya perlu berlaku adil berdasarkan isi, huraian dan fakta kes yang dibawa, bukanlah jantina. (plz take note,ok). Btw, good luck guys!

Hafiz: Along tengah belajar apa sekarang?
Me: Radiology
Hafiz: Owh, best la..boleh dengar radio hari-hari..
Me: Hahaha.. bukanlah. Kalau stakat dengar radio, kat rumah pon boleh, baik along balik msia, dengar lagu dengan korang, lagi best!! Along belajar pasal X-Ray, MRI, CT scan, ultrasounds dll.. semua nya hitam putih je.. (berceloteh mengenai setiap satu)
Hafiz: Alaa..kalau macam tu lagi senang. 2 warna je kan..
Me: Yerla tuh, sebab 2 warna la yang lagi pening kepala.. dahla along tak suka warna gelap..
Hafiz: Tak pe, along kan pandai..buat exam elok-elok, pastu balik la sini..kita lawan PES.

Teringat antara perbualan dengan Hafiz a.k.a si bulat.. eish, 'makin sihat' dia sekarang, bak kata mak..
Herm, terasa otak sangat penat sekarang dek kerana 4 lectures berderet-deret hari ini, hanya rest 15 minit pada selang lect ke-2 & 3, dan 5 minit selang antara lect ke-3 & 4. No time for lunch!

Sepanjang belajar subjek ini, hari-hari rasa tak seronok. Namun, hari ini baru saya rasakan, radiology menarik!! Kenapa?? sebab.. hari ini ada lecture khusus mengenai kanak-kanak..huhu. & otak saya berusaha untuk meng'absorb' segala maklumat & mata khusyuk memandang slides di dalam kelas yang gelap bak dalam 'cinema'.

Beratus-ratus slides yang perlu dilihat. Sekali pandang, harus terus pantas menilai, apakah sign yang terlihat pada slides itu, apakah penyebabnya, nyatakan struktur yang terlihat setiap satu pada slides, contrast apa yang digunakan, apakah contraindication untuk penggunaan contrast, tiub-tiub apakah yang terdapat pada slides, blabla.. Have to remember every single things about them. Should own eagle eyes, interpreting the abnormalities just by a glance, less than a minute.

The problem is, i don't like those black & white colours.. but, that's the basic in life. Black & white, explaining so many things about human conditions, Allah The Almighty.

Saat terasa tak suka, 'down' or susah, teringat kembali kata-kata abah, 'Bukan senang nak senang. Bukan susah nak susah'. Em, banyak benarnya. Semua kejayaan takkan kosong daripada kesusahan.

Hatta Nabi SAW pun diuji saat menerima ILMU~wahyu pertama melalui Jibril AS. Ini kan pula kita umatnya..

Let's get prepare for the radiology exam which will be on this Thursday, insya Allah. May success be ours.

NB: Just got a letter from Gombak. Thanks!! really happy (^_~)

Kenapa kebanyakan perempuan suka akan coklat? (alaa..ada lelaki yang suka jugak, kan..)

Kenapa Ferrero Rocher (klik untuk mengetahui kisah FR) yang menjadi pilihan?
(sebab sedap la..& not forget to mention, 'seems exclusive'..haha. Kalau dijadikan 'hadiah hantaran' pun lawa, hehe..opss!)

Coklat penjana tenaga segera.. coklat berkesan memberikan mood baik.. coklat lambang ikatan & ingatan..blabla..

Ikuti perkongsian mengenai coklat..lalalaa..

Coklat bukan sahaja sejenis makanan yang berkhasiat tetapi juga menyumbang kepada pemakanan yang seimbang berdasarkan kepada asas pemakanan berikut:-

• Lemak merupakan 35% pengambilan tenaga secara purata
• Protein kira-kira 15% daripada pengambilan tenaga
• Karbohidrat kira-kira 50% daripada pengambilan tenaga

Maka coklat boleh menyumbangkan:-

• 15% Lemak
• 6% Protein
• 17% Karbohidrat
• 15% Tenaga
• ++ Vitamin dan Mineral yang diperlukan

Lemak koko dalam coklat mengandungi 38.2% asid oleik iaitu sejenis asid lemak tidak tepu yang berperanan merendahkan paras kolesterol di dalam darah.

Asid sterik iaitu asid lemak tepu yang terkandung di dalam lemak koko pula mempunyai kesan neutral terhadap paras kolesterol.

Melalui kajian yang dijalankan didapati bahawa coklat mengandungi bahan anti-kerosakan gigi seperti tannin, kasein dan asid oksalik. (tapi perlulah menggosok gigi selepas makan yer, contoh sunnah Nabi SAW~bersugi )

Tannin ialah sejenis bahan yang menghalang pembiakan bakteria yang akan membentuk plak dan asid di dalam mulut. Asid yang terhasil daripada proses pemecahan makanan oleh bakteria merupakan punca kerosakan gigi. Plak adalah sisa-sisa makanan yang melekat pada gigi akibat tindakan bakteria.

Kasein di dalam coklat sus pula bertindak mengurangkan kerosakan gigi dengan menghalang pertumbuhan plak dan seterusnya mengurangkan pengeluaran asid.

Kasein juga membantu dalam pertumbuhan gigi.

Asid oksalik merencatkan pengeluaran enzim bakteria dan seterusnya menghalang pengeluaran asid.

Lemak kok yang merupakan bahan asas di dalam coklat mempunyai ciri-ciri kecairan yang membolehkan ia mudah cair di dalam mulut. Pertumbuhan plak gigi terhalang kerana coklat tidak tersimpan lama di dalam mulut.

Coklat dan serbuk koko mengandungi phenol sejenis bahan kimia yang membantu mengurangkan risiko sakit jantung. Phenol bertindank dengan menghalang lemak seperti zat di dalam aliran darah daripada teroksida dan menyumbat arteri.

Coklat mengandungi nilai tenaga yang tinggi dalam bentuk mudah dan padat. Oleh itu, ia amat sesuai dijadikan makanan gantian semasa menjalankan aktiviti luar seperti mengembara, mengikuti ekspedisi pendakian, bersukan serta aktiviti-aktiviti rekreasi yang lain. Coklat merupakan bekalan makanan mudah yang boleh dimakan bila-bila masa dan di mana jua.

Sumber: Chocolate: Facts On Health and Nutrition For Educators dan Health Professionals, Chocolate Manufacturers Association of the U.S.A.

Walau apapun, usahlah terlalu taksub dengan coklat (ringing for myself..). Basuh tangan, baca doa sebelum & selepas makan & bersugi selepas makan yer..

p/s: 24 biji FR dalam setiap kotak sempena 24 tahun..huhu~
selari dengan tagline my bestie wani, cokelat itu sedap..
menyahut entri cik qila psl coklat

Ummu, a good friend of mine asked me to make sushi for her. It's been a while since I got busy with so many things, poor her. Well, she’s pregnant right now. Able to do that kind during this weekend, yezza, at last.. as it’s my only rest weekend. ^^ I made crab sushi for us~ummu, paen, aza, Ku & me. yeah, still excel in the skill, lol~

Digesting dine with my 1st trial of shrimp fettucini alfredo, it's one of the Italian carte du jour that I like. How could I know about this? Hee..once having meal at Hakurah, Papa John, Pizza Hut & Via Via.. so, wanting to do it by myself this time. Alhamdulillah, proudly to say that, I’m satisfied as I just mixed the ingredients as I like.. honestly, just calculating on my mind.. but, OMG! It’s a real taste as at those places (as my friends say so)!! wink wink..

So, what’s the next menu?? May be I’ll move from Japan to Italy, and then drop by Germany. Hehee. Saturday~time for ‘STRIKE’ at Amman. Yippi!

NB: A deep condolence to Ummu & her family, so sorry to hear about her late father. May he rest in peace, insya Allah. Alfatihah.

"And those in whose wealth there is a recognised right,For the beggar who asks, and for the unlucky who has lost his property and wealth, (and his means of living has been straitened);.." (Al-Ma3rij: 24-25)

Its just a reminder for us, to check & balance a life nowadays.. no matter what 'status' we are.. we should once thought about it & have already map on our mind about our life after this..insya Allah.. So, proudly to share somethings here.. 'after I will, before I do'..

Even though some might think its just from a "nonmuslim thought", but for me, it's a realistic reminder about life..so, why do we should be so skepticism??

All over the country on Valentine's Day, men were down on bended knee proposing marriage. They spoke of love and affection and devotion. Few, however, mentioned what really matters: MONEY.

Crass, maybe. But true nonetheless.

Then you think about it, couples don't fight over love. They fight over money. They fight because one person didn't balance the checkbook or made a bone-headed investment without consulting the other. They fight because one partner exerts dictatorial control over the money, or because one has secretly amassed thousands of dollars in debt on a credit card, imperiling the couple's finances.

Whether the issues are big or small, money will prove a powerful force impacting your marriage -- sometimes overtly in the form of routine arguments; sometimes quietly as animosities seethe beneath the surface for years, only to explode into a potentially marriage-ending supernova.

What couples don't always grasp is that money is rarely the real culprit. It's the lack of communication, often stemming from a lack of knowledge about each other's personal financial quirks and beliefs.

So, some time between "Yes, I will marry you," and "I do," you and your partner need to have The Money Talk -- the key questions all couples should ask of one another.

Here are four of the more important questions to ask each other, since they provide insight and information on how money will flow through your marriage.

1. What Are Your Assets and Liabilities?

This question is paramount because assets and liabilities are the basic building blocks of the financial life you'll live together. Assets (banks accounts, investments, retirement plans and a house) help you strive for the life you want. The liabilities (a mortgage, credit-card debt, auto loans and leases) will hold you back.

Your goal is to pinpoint where you are financially as a couple so that you can map out where you want to go together. That could mean determining how much you want to save each month for retirement, or how much you want to put into an account for a new house, a new car or an annual vacation.

It also could mean talking about how you each use debt and the amount of debt you each have -- and mapping out a plan to pay off as quickly as possible the combined debt you will have as a family.

The best way to approach this: Present each other with a copy of your net-worth statement, a simple list of all your assets and liabilities. And voice no judgments. Mocking a partner's choices will simply lead to future silence.

2. What Is Your Money History?

What you experienced financially as a child -- how your parents managed their bills, how they talked or yelled about money, what they taught you about saving and spending -- has shaped who you are today.

Problems arise in marriage because partners don't always see money from the same perspective. You might abhor debt for anything other than a mortgage, yet your spouse-to-be thinks nothing of putting lunch, groceries and the afternoon Slurpee on a credit card, and then paying the minimum each month and allowing the balance to roll over.

In talking to one another about how you each see money, you will begin to understand one another's money habits. That, in turn, will help you find a common approach for managing money successfully as a couple.

Neither of you will -- nor should -- get your way completely. Marriage is about compromise. A better understanding early on of how you each see and use money will give you the tools to find a middle ground you're each happy with when financial discord arises.

3. How Should We Divide Financial Duties?

In many marriages, one partner exerts financial dominance over the other, leaving the silenced partner anxious and angry. Other times, one partner shirks financial duties because of disinterest, leaving the other to shoulder the burden. Neither is fair.

Couples should determine how to divvy up the various financial obligations that exist. Maybe one takes charge of investing and the other balances the checkbook. Play to each other's strengths. If you're good at challenging bureaucracy, maybe you agree to handle the insurance companies and the medical bills.

The point is that you both have an obligation to the family's financial well-being, and both spouses need to be aware of the household's financial situation.

If one partner wants to opt out of the daily financial minutiae, that's fine, so long as the other spouse is OK with handling the full obligation. But even then, you need to remain aware of what's going on with the finances so there are no unsavory surprises.

4. Do We Combine Accounts or Operate Individually?

This is a divisive issue. Many financial pros argue that operating from individual accounts helps maintain marital peace. Since neither partner knows what happens in the other's account, there's no bickering.

Maybe. But it's far from perfect. Resentments can emerge if one partner is better at saving and always has money for larger, more meaningful purchases. Moreover, individual accounts mask the family's true financial position, which can hamper the main purpose of marriage: operating as a team.

If neither of you know how much money is really flowing through the individual accounts, nor how much is being saved and invested, then it's impossible to plan a future together.

That doesn't mean individual accounts can't work. They can. But they require a large degree of openness so that you can both work toward common goals.

Ultimately, all of these questions are about one thing: communication. Learn to talk about money early and often, and you can mitigate the financial tensions that are normal in all marriages.

In conclusion, Plan our financial properly..

Semua insan suka berbicara mengenai HAK. Suatu milikan, termasuklah kepunyaan, kuasa dan benar 'klik di sini'. (walaupun hakikatnya, semua adalah milik Allah dan apa yang ada pada kita hanyalah 'pinjaman' semata-mata.)

Hak seorang Muslim ke atas seorang Muslim ada lima:

1) menjawab ucapan salamnya,

2) melawatnya ketika sakit,

3) mengiring jenazahnya ke perkuburan,

4) memenuhi jemputan, dan

5) mendoakan rahmat (Tasymit) apabila beliau bersin”

[Hadith riwayat al-Bukhari dan Muslim]

Ketika di Tingkatan 1 Maahad Muhammadi (p),(dah lepas peralihan setengah tahun), kami belajar subjek Adab Nusus, di mana bab pertama yang saya ingat hingga kini adalah Hak Muslim terhadap Muslim. Walaupun tika itu, hafal kerana imtihan dek ustazah yang gemar membuat ujian harian, namun, kerana itulah hadis itu saya ingat hingga kini, bi iznillah.

Saat itu saya sangat bersyukur kerana berpeluang mempelajari Islam dengan lebih baik, bukan setakat ilmu tahap sekolah rendah, malahan dengan silibus Al-Azhar. Kalau dulu, saya suka bertanya mengenai syarah-syarah, bayan atau keterangan yang ada dalam buku tersebut berkenaan tajuk yang kami pelajari, tapi kini, saya selalu berfikir mengenai 'apa realiti praktikal dalam kehidupan kini?'

Saya agak mengkagumi budaya masyarakat Arab, walaupun ada sifat-sifat yang kurang digemari, namum, banyak yang boleh kita pelajari dan budaya murni yang seharusnya diserap dalam masyarakat Malaysia.

Pernah suatu hari, tatkala di dalam OT (operation theatre), saya terbersin sambil mengucapkan 'Alhamdulillah'. Serentak selepas itu, doktor-doktor bedah, bius, jururawat yang berada di situ mengucapkan 'Yarhamkillah', (menandakan mereka menunaikan HAK ke atas saya), dan diiringi dengan saya mengatakan 'Yahdina wa yahdi kumullah wa yuslihu qulubakum'.

Budaya sebegini memang selalu dialami hatta di dalam kelas pengajian. Doktor yang bersemangat mengajar, boleh terberhenti seketika untuk mengucapkan 'yarhamkallah' kepada pelajar yang bersin. Pernah ada seorang pesakit wanita yang mendoakan saya tatkala saya terbersin tika mangambil 'history' daripadanya. Subhanallah.

Bukti mereka cintakan Rasul SAW, salah satunya adalah dengan mempraktikkan intipati hadis Rasulullah SAW.

Cuba dibandingkan dengan keadaan kita. Adakah kita menunaikan HAK sesama kita, seiring dengan ajaran Islam? Bukanlah sekadar hak persamaan taraf antara lelaki dan perempuan yang sibuk dilaung-laungkan, bukan jua sekadar hak suami isteri yang perlu ditekankan, namum, HAK MUSLIM TERHADAP MUSLIM..sudah terlaksana atau belum?? Segalanya terletak pada kita sama ada untuk mengikut pesanan Nabi SAW atau tidak..Bukan sekadar percaya kepada Rasul (rukun iman ke-2), namum praktikal nya??

WAllahu A'lam.

Not a single picture is allowed to post, as this was girls' day-in. huhu. It's just a sudden decision..during morning report of radiology. Actually, it was planning about few weeks ago that we wanted to have gathering, cooking & eating together..just us. But, as every weeks we had exams for these whole 5 weeks, so we couldn't make it. Ehem, as we don’t have any exam this week, (Thanks God! although next Thursday we'll have radiology exam), but..yeah, that is next week matter, full stop. The point is, we wanna have fun after getting exhausted of all those exams stuff.

Enjoying an amusing evening moment as omamah cooked maqlubah, karwan and maryam made 2 different saltah, maisa' with her yummy spagethi..heba&khulud bought a chocolate cake..& I just made a frozen strawberry cheese cake with blueberry topping on it, for our light dessert. Our venue at sumi's house.. well, it’s an 'Arabic menu' session for this time, really luscious. Thumbs up to everyone! (^_~) So, for next 2 weeks, during forensic rotation, insya Allah we'll have a Malay menu session then. For me, being as medical students is NOT an excuse to be pro with the kitchen stuff..it's just like a 'platinum bonus credit' for career women..lol~

So many things popped out before, during and after our lunch, opss, supposedly I name it dinner. We figured out many things about us. Whatever issues we 'discussed'(seems good uh? haha), those surely a top secret among us, only. That's why if we wanna know or get close to someone, have a journey with her, eat & play together..not only during routinely lectures and clinics.

Always together do not mean we could have chemistry, and also not always seems that we'll get along heartedly. It's about give and take. Accept, understanding, cherish and support each other, some points in relationship rule.

A day before was a Valentine's Day (click here), that lovely Omamah did chat with me during break between the lectures.

Omamah: Ain, do u have a date with your bf today?

Me: Sorry, pardon me..?? (Getting confused, honestly..what kind of quest is it?)

Omamah: Well, today is Valentine..

Me: Owh..just realize, about Valentine.. erm…Nope, I didn’t have any date..

Omamah: Don’t u have a bf?

Me: What can I say..I don’t have 'A' bf, but I do have boyfriendsss… hahahaa (all my colleagues are my friends, rite..?)

Omamah: Hahaa..u are really Ain. But, I don’t think u don’t have any special guy. Have u receive any chocolates before this?

Me: OMG! Do I have to answer?

Omamah: Surely..tell me.

Me: Yeah, I did..

Omamah: So, what kind of chocolates u got that u love the most? And who's that?

Me: Ferrero Rocher.. Opss, that's mega secret! Hahaa..

Omamah: Oo..I'll figure out about this. That's good for u, Ain! I'm happy for u..

Me: Thanks dear. So, what’s your plan for Valentine? Does u celebrate?

Omamah: Hahaa..as my bf at J*******m, so, I will have date with Maryam today..she will bring me roses & I will bring her chocolates.

Me: Oh, how sweet to have a date with Maryam. So, if 'he' is here, will u celebrate Valentine with him?

Omamah: Nope. If Valentine is about love..for me, everyday is our love day..Not only 1402.

Me: Yeah, do agree..also about the history of Valentine Day rite..? The Catholic and so on.. (then we chatted about those 'histories, click here')

Omamah: Yeah..so, we should just have fun with our girlfriendsss..

Practically in this real world, lots of couple does celebrate Valentine's Day (click here), same goes to unmarried couples. What poor human beings for unmarried couples. I'm sick of this. Don’t we realize that Allah is our loyal Stalker?

What I know, I will celebrate 1402, for my classmate's birthday, Madam Fatimah Zahra Norman a.k.a Teem..and also for Khairul Nazeri's wedding. Both are my old friends at KISAS. May Allah always shower all of us with Iman till our last breath, insya Allah.